Thank You Anyway

“What is the most important lesson you have learned in high school?” As I sat to consider this question, my raging case of senioritis caused me to blurt out: High school sucks and I learned nothing…but not really. After reminiscing for less then thirty seconds, I realized that is the biggest lie I have ever told my self. Starting with first day freshman jitters, to crazy homecoming weeks, and late night final study sessions, all the way to senior prom, high school has been the most wonderful roller coaster ride on my journey thus far- and I have learned more then I know how to write on paper. To determine what the most important lesson I have learned in high school is really where my contemplation lies.

I have learned how to proof an equation in geometry and write the perfect persuasive essay. I have learned the best test taking strategies and can exceed on standardized tests. I have learned that staying up all night to meet due dates is not the best idea…annnnd that some lessons just don’t ever sink in ;). I have learned that the stage is my most favorite thing in the whole world and you should never give up on your dreams. To be you, to love, to hope, to believe, to do; I have learned a lot.

From book lessons to life lessons, they each hold value in my heart, they are all important. However, the “most” important lesson I have learned can be summed up in my favorite poem by Mother Teresa:

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.  Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.  Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies.  Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you.  Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight.  Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous.  Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten.  Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough.  Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.  It was never between you and them   anyway.

This poem brings me to tears every time I read it. Having a close friend who treated me like the “people” in Mother Teresa’s poem, is the most heart wrenching, spirit shattering thing I have ever had to over come. I would have never believed that one person could hurt another so easily until it happened to me. But I am glad it did. I learned to stand up for myself and my beliefs anyway. 

~Even though you tried hard to bring me down, you have made me stronger then ever before, and I am so grateful for you because of that. I forgive you, I am happy for you, and I love you. Thank you anyway. <3